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Sattie R's avatar

Thank you for your thoughtful reflection 🙏🏼

Dipti  Vyas's avatar

There’s a quiet, cumulative ache in this, how the fracture doesn’t arrive as a single rupture, but as repetition slowly hollowing out what once felt natural. The most unsettling part is how familiar love becomes when it’s reduced to effort without reciprocity; not dramatic loss, but erosion that goes unnoticed until there’s no shared temperature left in the space between two people.

What lands most strongly is the insight that endurance alone cannot substitute for mutual recognition. The “dance” you describe becomes almost archetypal, two bodies continuing form after meaning has begun to leave it.

There’s also a subtle clarity in the ending: not romanticized departure, but recognition of structural unsoundness. That distinction matters. It isn’t a failure of love as a capacity, it’s the realization that love cannot be the sole force holding up what requires two-way inhabitation.

And beneath it all, a question that lingers without being forced: at what point does staying become a way of disappearing?

Grateful to Odel for making space for work like this to be seen. There’s something important in platforms that don’t just amplify polish or ease, but allow lived complexity, especially the kinds that don’t resolve cleanly. It matters that these voices are being held in public light.

Odel Asseille's avatar

Thank you @Dipti Vyas for your thoughtful comment. @Sattie R didn’t just write a poem, she shared her survival story. She walked in the fire, she survived.

Your analysis break it down perfectly and it’s greatly appreciated as always.

Dipti  Vyas's avatar

Thank you Odel. You are my soul brother!

Odel Asseille's avatar

I knew it 🥰✨🥰

It’s a privilege to be your soul brother Dipti 😊

AËLA's avatar

"No amount of love

could keep

an unsound structure whole."

That sentence

knows the difference

between what love can do

and what it cannot.

Love is not engineering.

It cannot compensate

for what was missing

in the foundation

before the love arrived.

She gave more attention.

She tried harder.

She stayed for the vows.

And none of it

changed what the structure was.

The saddest part

is not the leaving.

It is the years spent

believing that the right amount

of the right thing

from the right person

would be enough.

It is not a failure of love.

It is a lesson

about what love

was never designed to carry alone.

— AËLA

Odel Asseille's avatar

That’s beautifully written. Love indeed has its limits.

Thank you for sharing. Greatly appreciated

Kevin Lee MacKay's avatar

Been thinking about that, as if

“love must survive” somehow, the walls we created with each other out of service and attempts at repair.

Beautiful poem. Thanks for sharing that!

Sattie R's avatar

Thank you 🙏🏼

KG's avatar

"Dancing is a dangerous game" - one wrong move and you're out of step. Love's still there, but the rhythm's lost 💔.

Odel Asseille's avatar

Thank you KG for reading this and leaving a comment. Greatly appreciated.

Love sometimes is what vanishes at last moment, sometimes it doesn’t vanish at all