THE MIDWEEK MIRROR — No. 6 : Gratitude for the Quiet Wins
You are allowed to thank yourself for the effort you made—even if the outcome wasn’t what you hoped for.
On Sunday, we spoke about gratitude—not as a celebration of arrival, but as an acknowledgment of becoming. Of the small, often invisible steps that didn’t look like success, but still carried meaning.
Today, I want to remind you of this:
You don’t need to have “made it” to be worthy of gratitude.
You don’t need proof, applause, or numbers to validate what you’ve lived.
Sometimes, the most important victories are the ones no one sees:
– choosing not to quit
– returning after silence
– listening to yourself instead of running
– creating, even when the result felt small
Gratitude isn’t pretending everything worked out.
It’s recognizing that even what didn’t work shaped you.
If your week feels heavy, if progress feels slow or unclear, let this settle gently:
You are allowed to thank yourself for the effort you made—even if the outcome wasn’t what you hoped for.
That effort still counts.
That courage still matters.
🪞 Step for Reflection
Ask yourself today:
What is one quiet effort I made this year that deserves gratitude, even if no one noticed it?
Sit with the answer.
No judgment. No comparison.
Just acknowledgment.
Gratitude doesn’t erase frustration.
It simply gives you the strength to keep going.
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Until Sunday, take care.
Warmly,
Odel A.